Fortunately, IncrediMail's maybe overreaching defaults can be changed.
Prevent IncrediMail from Checking Mail When You Launch It
To tell IncrediMail not to check for new mail the moment you launch it:
- Select Tools | Options... from the menu in IncrediMail.
- Go to the General tab.
- Make sure Check for new mail when opening IncrediMail is not checked.
- Click OK.

